The 10 Golden Rules of Dieting


By eDiets Staff

No matter which healthy meal plan you choose, there are some golden rules that everybody needs to follow to drop those extra pounds and live healthier. If you are finally ready to make yo-yo dieting a thing of the past, adopt this list of tips as your personal 10 commandments:

1. Make a Lifestyle Change
Contrary to what you might think, dieting is not a temporary solution. If you only diet to lose weight, those extra pounds will return as soon as you go back to your old eating patterns.

“The primary definition of the word ‘diet’ is what you usually eat,” nutritionist Susan Burke says. “If you usually eat nutritious foods in the right portion size for you to stay at your desired weight, then you’re on the right diet for you.”

2. Exercise
If you want to lose weight, you have to get moving. Regular exercise is an essential part of any healthy lifestyle. Ideally, your fitness regimen should include a combination of aerobic exercise and resistance training. If it has been a while since you last exerted yourself, you may want to work with a personal trainer. Also, remember to consult your personal physician before beginning any new exercise program.

3. Drink Plenty Of Water
Although you get water from foods and other fluids, experts recommend drinking at least eight glasses (8 ounces each) of water every single day. You should also be sure to drink water before, during and after each exercise session so you don’t get dehydrated.

“Cool, clear water helps keep you regular, is good for your complexion and takes the edge off your appetite,” Burke says. “Keep a half-liter bottle at your desk and one in the refrigerator.”

4. Monitor Your Portion Sizes
Don’t let yourself become the next victim of portion distortion. Remember that bigger is not always better, especially when it comes to the amount of food on your plate. Even healthful foods can provide excess calories if you eat too much of them. Learn how much food is right for you and don’t feel the need to clean your plate every time you eat out. Don’t be afraid to ask for a doggie bag.

“Your eDiets meal plan shows you the portion sizes that are right for you,” Burke says. “For example, a 3-ounce portion of meat, chicken or fish looks like a deck of cards; a cup of cottage cheese or yogurt looks like a tennis ball; an ounce of cheese looks like a pair of dice; and a tablespoon of fat looks like the tip of your thumb.”

5. Keep a Food Journal
When you are trying to lose weight, a food journal can be an invaluable resource. It is important to keep track of everything you eat so that you learn to avoid mindless eating in the future.

“Keeping a journal is one way to stop the vicious cycle of overeating and over-gaining,” psychologist Susan Mendelsohn says. The act of writing in and of itself, will prevent you from grabbing for the goodies in the kitchen, office or convenience store.”

6. Don’t Skip Meals
Some people think they will be able to lose weight faster if they skip meals, but this isn’t the case. Eating regular meals is an important way to keep your metabolism regular. In fact, you may even want to divide your meals into smaller portions and eat more often throughout the day.

“If you’re not succeeding on your weight-loss plan this week, try breaking your meals into mini-meals and eat every 2-3 hours to maintain your energy and to avoid hunger,” Burke says.

7. Lose the Junk Food
The best way to avoid the temptation to eat junk food is to go through your cupboards and do some cleaning. Get the junk food out of your house. Also, when you have a dinner party, send your friends home with the leftovers.

“If you’re used to snacking on chips and dips, you need to prepare to succeed with some new and tasty snacks,” Burke says. “Sugar-free Fudgesicles, ice milk and frozen fruit bars are good choices instead of full-fat ice cream. If you’re wedded to chips and dips, try baby carrots and cut-up veggies with salsa instead. Make a tasty but healthy dip by mixing a cup of half nonfat yogurt/half low-fat sour cream and onion soup mix.”

8. Modify Your Favorite Recipes
Following a healthy lifestyle doesn’t mean you will never be able to enjoy your favorite foods again. If you adopt an attitude of deprivation, it is unlikely that you will stick to your diet. Instead of depriving yourself, give your favorite recipes a healthy makeover.

“Frying adds fat to food, which adds calories,” Burke says. “Some favorite fried foods can be baked instead. Chicken and French fries are two favorite fried foods that are better when made in the oven than on the stove.”

9. Manage Your Stress
Though a certain amount of stress is normal, too much stress can be unhealthy for your body. Anxiety and tension also commonly drive people to skip meals, eat the wrong kinds of foods or snack compulsively. Finding healthy ways to manage your stress will make it easier to adopt a healthy lifestyle.

“Life is tough, and most of us lack certain coping tools,” says psychologist Matthew Anderson. “We then are driven to food as a comfort and denial mechanism.”

10 . Develop A Support Network
The road to healthier living doesn’t have to be a lonely one. If you are trying to drop those extra pounds and keep them off, your best bet is to follow the advice of the Beatles and “get by with a little help from your friends.”

Research continues to demonstrate that support is one of the most critical ingredients in achieving successful weight loss. People are more likely to reach their weight-loss goals with the help of a support network. Members of a group can also be more successful together than any of them would have been on their own.





  • Anonymous

    Yes to Sugar Free Fudgesicles! They have only 40 calories and really satisfy. I met my goal weight with the help of those and fat free smoothies – frozen fruit, fat free milk and Splenda – cold things seem to satisfy that urge to overeat. You can do it!

  • Anonymous

    As I have studied up on dieting, you really need to avoid aspartame if possible as it doesn't allow you digest protein properly, and it also allows fat to enter your blood stream after you have consumed it. It also causes you to crave food, therefore eating MORE food. I recommend a natural zero calorie sweetener like stevia.

  • Becci

    For me, stress makes me lose weight. Because when I'm stressed, food is the only thing I can control. I hate it.

  • Anonymous

    Lately I have been working out with one of personal trainer Jillian Michaels' workout videos, which has greatly enhanced my fitness level. I am deeply committed to the workout program. Thanks for the insightful "Golden Rules" you offered. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this article!

  • Tyler

    I think it's funny how many people login to complain about the "models" and "perfect bodies" of the people photographed and idealized in these articles. They shout "show real people!". Come on guys!… it's a diet and weightloss website/forum! Many of us on here find these photos and articles inspiring and motivational. Let's please not make this a "politically correct" issue. eDiets… Keep up the good work. You're helping a lot of people out there to acheive the level of fitness that they have always wanted.

  • Julie

    I know that if I start cooking my own food instead of eating out I'll lose the weight. It's just that simple.

  • yazz

    i have been exercising 6 days a week ,combination of strengthtraining cardio 2 hours daily. Ihave been monitoring my calorie intake around 1600 Iam a31 year old female current weight145pounds height 5feet2inches iwant to lose 20pounds ihaveseen no results for the last 2 months where am i going wrong please help.

  • welzme

    Yazz…I'm about your height, wanting to lose some additional weight. I've lost 15 pds since January, but like you, can't seem to take anymore off. I try to stay between 1200 to 1400 calories a day and exercise pretty much every day. My weight stays the same though. If I keep the calories closer to 1200 I may see a pound difference, but if I go closer to the 1400 mark on any one day I will see that just back again the next morning. I am on medication for low thyroid. Have you had your checked to see if you are metabolizing well. Like me, you may have hypo-thyroidism, which causes your body to slow down. Good luck!

  • Norma

    Hi! it is the calorie intake. Follow the formula (your weight /10 = 1450 a day.
    But if some really want to lose weight ( 2 -3 lbs/week ) then try the magic number 1200 calories a day—plenty of water,at least 3 meals and 3 snack a day, make sure each meal has 10 grams of protein and don't eat sugar.Good luck and stay healthy

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Martha-Rodriguez/100000566572456 Martha Rodriguez

    im 30 years old and 143lb i gained 50lbs when i had my boy 2 years ago i still have13lbs to loose, i work out atleast 5 days out of the week cardio and strengh , about 1 hour everyday, my prob is that the more i work out the hungrier i get lol, i dont know if this is normal lol. ive tried the fiber items and 100 cal snacks but i still get hungry so i cant loose those last 13lbs i need to loose, any advice plz. thank you

  • nooya

    It sounds to me your calorie intake might be too high. I'm 5'3. I was at 133 lbs an got down to 120 by exercising 4-5 times per week (burning about 200-250 calories per session), combination of strength and cardio and at an intake of only 1200-1400 calories per day. It took me about 8 weeks to drop the 12-13 lbs I was aiming for. Now I'm maintaining with exercise 2-3 times/week and calorie intake of 1500-1700.

    For my height and body build (I have small bones) I found that I naturally burn 1500-1750 calories per day. In order to lose 1 lb per week you need to create a deficiency of 3500 calories per week, which meant a 500 calorie deficiency per day hence the reason I dropped down to 1200 calorie intake (~1700-1200=500).

    Sorry if this is making no sense… all in all I just think you might want to cut down your calorie intake a bit more because at your height, 1600 calories is going to help you lose weight but veryyyy slowly. Plus don't forget you might be building muscle which weighs more than the fat you're burning but also burns more calories. Good luck!

  • Lisa

    same here but im 36 I feel as though I want to give up ..Im 5ft 4 and weigh 135 I would like to be 125 Im stuck

  • RaphaeleDiets

    Hi Martha, it sounds like you need to increase your calories but in reality it’s difficult to answer the question because I don’t know how many calories you’re consuming each day, how often you go off your food plan, the foods you’re actually eating each day or how tall you are. If you’re an eDiets member I recommend that you contact our nutrition support staff to fully analyze your activity versus calories. However, if you’re not an eDiets member then you could try increasing your calories a bit. Again though, it’s very difficult to answer the question without all the facts I mentioned.

  • PameDiets

    Hi Martha,
    Thanks for posting. It may be that you aren’t getting enough calories secondary to your activity ….really depends on your intake for the day. Do you know your calorie level intake? When losing weight there is such a balance between intake and activity – has to be balanced. We would love to help you reach your goal so send us a note to our nutrition team at nutrition@ediets.com .

  • Gina

    for exercise induced hunger I recommend something called volumetrics. I'm sure you can google it. The theory is to eat foods such as soup that have large volumes of liquid or water. They fill you up without large calorie density. Try if for about 3 or 4 days and I'll bet you'll see the scale budge. I've found sometimes just changing up the foods I eat, substituting a different kind of fruit or dinner entree can induce a change.
    Good luck

  • http://www.body2die4.com Janebern

    Great tips!

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